And before
honor comes humility
(Proverbs 15:
33b NASB)
I wonder what
they think about me now?
I worked for a mission’s organization called Youth With A Mission,
referred to as YWAM. I was a recruiter and I set up missions meetings in
35 cities east of the Mississippi River. I had wonderful people in
each city working with me. Knowing that missionaries were just ordinary people
who had the privilege of working with an extraordinary God, I sometimes felt
these people had a little higher view of missionaries then we deserved.
One weekend a couple that organized meetings for me in South
Carolina came to the YWAM center in Virginia where I lived. This couple really
loved missions and they appreciated the work of our mission. But that weekend
I was a little surprised when I found out why they really liked us so much.
Sunday morning we planned on having them over to our apartment for
breakfast before going to church. That morning I was running between the dining
area and the bedroom. I was trying to entertain my guests and also to help my
youngest daughter get dressed for church. I felt a little stressed. My
little one who usually was the picture of submission was having a hard time
listening to her Dad. I think she may have been influenced by the Sunday
morning demon. Finally, I lost it and let her have it verbally in a very
unloving fashion. As soon as the words came out of my mouth I knew I was wrong
and I apologized to her. She forgave me as kids usually do. But we were in
the room right next to where my guests we're waiting, and I thought to myself; did
they hear what I said? A little embarrassed terror hit my heart.
Again I thought, I wonder what they think about me now. At the
breakfast table I felt like a little child who didn't want to look into his
parents eyes when he knows he's done something wrong. Needless to say it was a
very awkward breakfast for me.
After breakfast I realized that not making eye contact with them was not going
to work all day. After church at a restaurant before we prayed for the food I
decided to get this thing off my chest. It didn't matter whether they had heard
me or not, I needed to be known in my weakness and ask them to pray that I
would be better at handling stress. I told them the story and the husband got a
huge smile on his face and said, “that's what we like about you YWAMERS, you
have the rhema in this area of openness.” Wow! I saw more clearly than
ever that I had been believing a lie. I thought that if I let myself be known
for who I really was I would lose their acceptance. What made me so susceptible
to this deception? It was my pride. I cared more than I should about
what my friends thought about me. What I wanted to hide, when revealed,
didn’t bring shame but respect In God's Kingdom honor is always
preceded by humility.
Ken Barnes, the
author of “The Chicken Farm and
Other Sacred Places” YWAM Publishing
Email: kenbarnes737@gmail.com
website: https://sites.google.com/site/kenbarnesbooksite/
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